Wednesday, October 18, 2006

Give others freedom to be themselves

Hi all,

“Give others freedom to be themselves. Appreciate the differences between their ways and yours.”

This is a SMS message that I got today as an early morning greeting. Yes, every individual needs freedom. Each of us behave in a different way and the difference only makes us to be individualistic from each other.

For those who look up for affection,it is not wrong,but don’t force others to behave in the way u want. We don’t have rights to march into personal space of others .Each of us is different. Value, welcome, realize and appreciate those differences. If u really care, understand them; let them to enjoy freedom, give them space. Relationships grow older and bond best with those who don’t invade that space.

Time is one of the big constraints in this fast moving world, we barely know neighbor’s face in big apartments. Unloading heart doesn’t happen easily. The pressures of being individualistic also bring with it the baggage that we rarely unpack and share. When you are so busy you need to look more into yourselves, and that’s the fact too.

“But when a person whom you love very much, trust a lot, hurts you, ignores you, No one can heal the wound left, no one can imagine the pain caused, even the same person cannot.”

If you’re trusted and people will allow you to share their inner gardens...what better gift?

Am i making any sense???!!! :)
Will try to meet u all soon.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

True Ramya,

Each person nurtures a thought differently with his own style of percieving thoughts. While it should be an ardent endeavor of the leader to convince everybody regarding the commonality and single minded thinking process, sufficient care and (pre)caution have to be taken to ensure that all perceptions from all quarters have been exhaustively analyzed.

A good speaker begins from being a very good listener. Isn't it?

Ramya Sridharan said...

@Deepak
Thanks for your comment.
ofcourse a person should take sufficient care before he speaks and should listen to what the other person says...