Monday, July 17, 2006

Life Boat.:)

Hi everybody,

The birth of a person sails towards death. Is the life journey an easy one?
Lot of problems and difficulties we face. The person who sails in the boat of confidence
with an oar of perseverance in a sea called Life only could reach his destination.
Only then his journey could be successful.
This world is not ours. We don’t belong to this world.
It was present before our entrance and it shall be even after our end .
We are the visitors and we would go away soon we complete our earthly work and
we should welcome both good and bad in the same way,
at least we can try.
Don’t compare yourself with others, each one of us was created for different reasons;
try to bring out your identity ,
which is present inside u.
Don’t take success or failures in material wealth.
But by how u feel.
Our feelings determine the richness of our lives.
There are lots of experiences we gain.
Waiting is a lovely experience,
When u wait for a person u love.
Pain is a lovely experience,
When you deliver a child.
Anger is a lovely experience,
When you oppose illegal things.
Departure is a lovely experience,
When your daughter gets married.
Crying is a lovely experience,
When u feel happy.
Death is a lovely experience ,
Only when u live life to the fullest.

I feel that living life to the fullest is to have hope.
Sometimes we may feel that everything is lost and some void space fills our heat.
I too had such experience.
I had a friend in my neighborhood
I started liking her because of her attitude and also bcoz she possessed my best friend’s name.
Don’t know till that moment,
That she had a brain tumor,
When the doctor’s could not help,
She reached the feet of god, left me and created a void space.
And this happened two days before my final semester exams.

I closed my books, could not even cry, I was unable to accept the truth that she was no more.
I did not talk anything, came back home and cried to the core. What else I can do?
The past full of memories rolled down my head,
my mind and soul could not hold the pain inside, her memories went like a slide show throughout.
I thought of calling prathiba, coz she possess the ability to turn dull moments bright and
she knows when to offer advice or when to sit silent in quiet comfort.But I was unable to.
I felt like something, I could not explain those.

Two days passed, the day for my exam. Some how managed to get ready for the college.
I did not let go hope, because hope gave me the strength to keep going, when I felt like giving up.
I have written my exams to my level best.

The lessons I have learnt,

1. Dont let bad moments overcome you,
Be patient, it will pass.

2. Don’t feel like u have lost,
When your dreams fall short of your hopes.
Anytime u learn something new,
About urself or about life,
U have progressed.

3. Don’t ever guilt believing your self.
As long as u believe u can,
U will have a reason for trying.

I remember the words of Mahatma Gandhiji,

“Man often become what believe himself to be. If I believe I cannot do some thing,
it makes me incapable of doing it. But when I believe I can, then I acquire the ability to do it ,
even if I did not have it in the beginning”.

And thank u all for reading my post very patiently.

Live your life to the fullest.

C u all in my next post. :)




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Thursday, July 06, 2006

Love

hi,

Love…love…….

This is the buzz word found everywhere…

It makes the life sweet
It helps to get away from problems
It improves our routine life
It is the easiest way to reach god
And it makes life beautiful……….

It flows from heaven
And is absent at hell
That’s why we say “anbe kadavul”(Love is god)

Love others in the same way u love urself,says Bible.
Yes, u should love urself first..
Only then u can share it with others.

Only when u have the light to burn,
U can lit the candle of others
And make their place bright.

When u find love within u
U can feel the peace of mind.
When a person did not learn to live in harmony with his own self,
He would not be able to live in harmony with others too.

When u have love
Your thinking is ordered,
U will find good thoughts,
Coz thought is the propelling force in us,
Fill the mind with highest thoughts,
Coz your life will become the same way as your thoughts.

Life is to show love …(towards your family, friends,and of course everyone around u)
U should love urself to live
And to make your life complete, love everyone.

c u soon in my next post...